Before I dive in to a semi-serious life lesson blog lets see how we have been! Well I have a rugby team finally after searching high and low forever I have a great group of girls
Marli and I are fantastic, school is going great. I have my 4.0 still and hopefully transferring to University of Texas at Arlington, YAY!
We are surrounding ourselves with positive people and people who can make us better in one way or another. I am beyond blessed as of late for my teammate and best friend who has been keeping me sane recently.
And for the nosey folk looking for my love life, maybe next time.
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#1. People are not nice and people are not all genuine. I get that people change and situations change, it happens to the best of us, but at the end of the day, you do not disrespect someone that has been there since day one. My biggest and most important part of any friendship or relationship is respect, I have been walked over my whole life because I was labeled the girl who was always "nice" I have always been a pushover. This year has changed that, I have started to acknowledge when I have stepped too far in the nice area for someone who does not reciprocate it.
#2. Forgiveness is okay, forgiving someone for a mistake or for even something more serious is okay. Forgiveness is good for your heart and mind, you do not forget, but it is perfect to give someone forgiveness even if it was not asked for.
#3. Everything can be turned into a lesson, you learn from all aspects of life.
#4. Things have to get worse before they can get better.
That is really all I have on this fine September Afternoon while my tiny boss is fast asleep dreaming of Chick Fil a and juice boxes. On that note I am going to be more consistent, it feels soooo good after so long to finally write it out. Well always find the positives in your day and try to better yourself one day at a time!π
P.S. I promise the next one will not be serious and I will attempt to be comical even though my mom is the only one that reads this stuff anyways.
-Laurin, the "Me" in Marli and Me